College life does not hold very special memories for me...
Except for hostel and train travels...
Brighter side of college...I had wonderful times at the hostel for 3yrs
and final year was equally enjoyable in trains.
Purposedly I am not discussing about my class as I did not have any great fun there.
Except for very few close frnds,my class has always been boring.I am sure most of my friends would accept this fact.
But life outside college has been wonderful...with UPs and DOWNs
I made some very good friends and unfortunately lost a few.
Hostel life made me realise how diverse people can be.
I understood people and experienced the saying "Appearances are Deceptive".
Although I missed my parents,my friends made up for it and there has never been a dull moment when they were around.
Sometimes,I repent for not having a wondeful time in college campus though
I cannot blame anyone.Maybe I can blame only FATE.
Thursday, December 11, 2008
Monday, December 1, 2008
Changes that marriage has brought in me
Before Sept 16th 2007
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Life used to be carefree.I used to be a happy go lucky gal roaming with my frnds, spending quality time with parents.No responsibilities at home also.Everything came to my place just when I ask for at home.Pampered spoiled brat I used to be :-)
Many might not believe,but Kausthu knows the transformation I have underwent (and its still happening).Right from making bed,to packing lunch ...very few days I used to do all this.Still,I was given atmost importance ,My opinions were highly respected and accepted (else I wouldnt ve married kausthu na :-) ).Everybody used to be surprised to see de way my dad used to pamper me in this age :-)
All this said,it does not been that I do not know my manners.I have been brought up well,know how to treat people and respect all...Thanks to my parents.
After Sept 16th 2007
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Before marriage I used to be so scared about my married life and how well I would adjust with all.
The transition was smooth...thanks to my in laws.They made me feel a home.In fact I am more pampered here :-)
Then in April 2008 we(myself & kausthu) shifted to our new place.
The very first thought of taking all the resposibilities scared us.
Ofcourse my inlaws are nearby and they will be there to help us out.Still right from preparing food before going to office till locking the doors properly...all needed additional attention!!!
Day one was tragic...Food didnt turn out prply..but kausthu was encouraging...
Then slowly a week went by and we got adapted to our new home.
We invited our parents for lunch and they were proud of us!!!
Months went by and we celebrated varalakhmi veradam,navarathiri at our new place.
Relatives were happy to see us as a responsible couple.
Certain things still go out of our way..Few months we spend very lavishly and then feel guilty for not making any savings for that month.
Still we are in the learning process.Both of us share the responsibilities and triffle fights might occur if one does not finish his/her work.
Married life is not so easy...Though ours was love marriage,we discovered more about each other's likes and dislikes only after marriage.
Every day is new and has lot of surprises in store.
I know this is just a day to day happening but I have not seen it written anywhere.
Its a nice feeling to write
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Life used to be carefree.I used to be a happy go lucky gal roaming with my frnds, spending quality time with parents.No responsibilities at home also.Everything came to my place just when I ask for at home.Pampered spoiled brat I used to be :-)
Many might not believe,but Kausthu knows the transformation I have underwent (and its still happening).Right from making bed,to packing lunch ...very few days I used to do all this.Still,I was given atmost importance ,My opinions were highly respected and accepted (else I wouldnt ve married kausthu na :-) ).Everybody used to be surprised to see de way my dad used to pamper me in this age :-)
All this said,it does not been that I do not know my manners.I have been brought up well,know how to treat people and respect all...Thanks to my parents.
After Sept 16th 2007
---------------------
Before marriage I used to be so scared about my married life and how well I would adjust with all.
The transition was smooth...thanks to my in laws.They made me feel a home.In fact I am more pampered here :-)
Then in April 2008 we(myself & kausthu) shifted to our new place.
The very first thought of taking all the resposibilities scared us.
Ofcourse my inlaws are nearby and they will be there to help us out.Still right from preparing food before going to office till locking the doors properly...all needed additional attention!!!
Day one was tragic...Food didnt turn out prply..but kausthu was encouraging...
Then slowly a week went by and we got adapted to our new home.
We invited our parents for lunch and they were proud of us!!!
Months went by and we celebrated varalakhmi veradam,navarathiri at our new place.
Relatives were happy to see us as a responsible couple.
Certain things still go out of our way..Few months we spend very lavishly and then feel guilty for not making any savings for that month.
Still we are in the learning process.Both of us share the responsibilities and triffle fights might occur if one does not finish his/her work.
Married life is not so easy...Though ours was love marriage,we discovered more about each other's likes and dislikes only after marriage.
Every day is new and has lot of surprises in store.
I know this is just a day to day happening but I have not seen it written anywhere.
Its a nice feeling to write
Wednesday, November 26, 2008
Kausthu :-)
I was just thinking yest night why should I always keep cribbing in this blog.
Why not tell the world about the blessings that GOD has given in my life.
The title says it all...KAUSTHU
The name brings a smile in my face and I know that many of u who know him would also be feeling the same...
I wouldnt say our life(obviously myself and kausthu) is a page from fairy tale.
But I would prefer it to be this way rather than a fairy tale.
Everyday has its own sweetness and bitterness.
We may have triffle fights,but I am happy we always make it triffle. :-)
Kausthu is "cleanliness God".Till date, everyday ,I keep trying to keep the house as clean as possible.But one sunday he cleans the place and then I realise how dirty the place was .:-)
The way he judges ppl makes me dumbstruck.He makes everyone feel very comfortable,whatever age they maybe.I really feel his colleagues must
be really lucky.
To me,he s everything :-) .Temper is something we both need to control but its most of the times because of me that he gets angry.But that is just for a few mins.
For his age he s sooo matured or I would say in the past one year he has become more matured and responsible. :-)
Only after he entered into my life I forgot something called FEAR.
Whatever happens,I know that a call or sms to him(whether he replies is a different story ..hehe) would make me feel better :-)
Sometimes bfore marriage he used to ask what kind of guy I expected to get married to.
I never expected rather I never imagined that there will be a person like him..that too in this modern world.I dont mean that he is not a modern guy.
He is a blend of the current generation who respects our age old traditions and does his best to follow them.
Who would imagine that an IT guy who is freaking out at cinemas and restaurants would equally freak if vishnu sahasranamam is not chanted at home!!!
Very adjusting,supportive not only as a husband but also as a friend,colleague,son-in-law...what not!!
I do not even know if he would be reading all this as he s not a kind of person who loves to read.
But still I felt this blog deserves some happy words and hence I thought of writing abt the BEST in my life.
Signing off with a smile...:-)
Why not tell the world about the blessings that GOD has given in my life.
The title says it all...KAUSTHU
The name brings a smile in my face and I know that many of u who know him would also be feeling the same...
I wouldnt say our life(obviously myself and kausthu) is a page from fairy tale.
But I would prefer it to be this way rather than a fairy tale.
Everyday has its own sweetness and bitterness.
We may have triffle fights,but I am happy we always make it triffle. :-)
Kausthu is "cleanliness God".Till date, everyday ,I keep trying to keep the house as clean as possible.But one sunday he cleans the place and then I realise how dirty the place was .:-)
The way he judges ppl makes me dumbstruck.He makes everyone feel very comfortable,whatever age they maybe.I really feel his colleagues must
be really lucky.
To me,he s everything :-) .Temper is something we both need to control but its most of the times because of me that he gets angry.But that is just for a few mins.
For his age he s sooo matured or I would say in the past one year he has become more matured and responsible. :-)
Only after he entered into my life I forgot something called FEAR.
Whatever happens,I know that a call or sms to him(whether he replies is a different story ..hehe) would make me feel better :-)
Sometimes bfore marriage he used to ask what kind of guy I expected to get married to.
I never expected rather I never imagined that there will be a person like him..that too in this modern world.I dont mean that he is not a modern guy.
He is a blend of the current generation who respects our age old traditions and does his best to follow them.
Who would imagine that an IT guy who is freaking out at cinemas and restaurants would equally freak if vishnu sahasranamam is not chanted at home!!!
Very adjusting,supportive not only as a husband but also as a friend,colleague,son-in-law...what not!!
I do not even know if he would be reading all this as he s not a kind of person who loves to read.
But still I felt this blog deserves some happy words and hence I thought of writing abt the BEST in my life.
Signing off with a smile...:-)
Tuesday, November 25, 2008
FRIENDS
Friends really make life beautiful!!!
I have already written about the BEST in my life.
But my life will not be complete without some people with whom I really cherish being with.
Bhavana,Mani,nivi,shalu...I cannot imagine a life without them.
Right from 8th std i know them,and from that day till date they know me inside out.
Recent times we have become very busy and we get to talk to each other rarely.
But still if there s something I have to talk to I know they ll always be dere for me and listen to all my non-stop talks anytime!!!
I still remember those days,when kausthu had proposed to me...These people where the ones to whom I used to keep sharing my feelings and they used to be very supportive throughout.
There are also some people to whom I may not be talking everyday but to whom I am very important.Ramana , dhanya ,remya are those people who are my well wishers and who give lot of importance to me .
Ramana for instance has never forgotten any important day in my life and has been a constant well wisher who is concerned a lot about my well being.
He never forgets to tell me any important incident or happening in his life.Whether I talk to him regularly or not I have complete update about him.
Dhanya and Remya have been with me throughout my college and its so much fun to be wid them.
Then,since last year I have wonderful friends at office with whom I feel that I am still in my college.This space will not be enuf to mention all their names..sabi(my frnd since college),ram,sriram,k7,madhu,kaushalya...the list goes on.
One reason why I wouldnt miss my work is these people.I feel so bored to stay at home without their non stop talks.How much ever they keep pulling my legs,only that keeps me stay energetic throughout my office hours.Although they may keep pulling my legs they would really be very concerned when I have any problem be it at work or at home and would really make sure that I am fine.They keep all crap nicknames which sometimes is so buggin but only I know how much I laugh even when I am alone thinking about all that :-)
God has really been adding more friends and well wishers to my life and my recent very close friend is Rahul.He is more a big brother to me and Kausthu s best frnd.A person who gives us atmost importance of all the people he knows.(well..vice versa is also true!)
I really bug him everyday with all my little things and he patiently listens to everything,whatever crap they maybe :-).Just little over a year since we started talking but I never feel so.
I just pray to GOD that myself and Kausthu are always in constant touch with these people forever in our life.That would be the most wonderful blessing we have!!!
I have already written about the BEST in my life.
But my life will not be complete without some people with whom I really cherish being with.
Bhavana,Mani,nivi,shalu...I cannot imagine a life without them.
Right from 8th std i know them,and from that day till date they know me inside out.
Recent times we have become very busy and we get to talk to each other rarely.
But still if there s something I have to talk to I know they ll always be dere for me and listen to all my non-stop talks anytime!!!
I still remember those days,when kausthu had proposed to me...These people where the ones to whom I used to keep sharing my feelings and they used to be very supportive throughout.
There are also some people to whom I may not be talking everyday but to whom I am very important.Ramana , dhanya ,remya are those people who are my well wishers and who give lot of importance to me .
Ramana for instance has never forgotten any important day in my life and has been a constant well wisher who is concerned a lot about my well being.
He never forgets to tell me any important incident or happening in his life.Whether I talk to him regularly or not I have complete update about him.
Dhanya and Remya have been with me throughout my college and its so much fun to be wid them.
Then,since last year I have wonderful friends at office with whom I feel that I am still in my college.This space will not be enuf to mention all their names..sabi(my frnd since college),ram,sriram,k7,madhu,kaushalya...the list goes on.
One reason why I wouldnt miss my work is these people.I feel so bored to stay at home without their non stop talks.How much ever they keep pulling my legs,only that keeps me stay energetic throughout my office hours.Although they may keep pulling my legs they would really be very concerned when I have any problem be it at work or at home and would really make sure that I am fine.They keep all crap nicknames which sometimes is so buggin but only I know how much I laugh even when I am alone thinking about all that :-)
God has really been adding more friends and well wishers to my life and my recent very close friend is Rahul.He is more a big brother to me and Kausthu s best frnd.A person who gives us atmost importance of all the people he knows.(well..vice versa is also true!)
I really bug him everyday with all my little things and he patiently listens to everything,whatever crap they maybe :-).Just little over a year since we started talking but I never feel so.
I just pray to GOD that myself and Kausthu are always in constant touch with these people forever in our life.That would be the most wonderful blessing we have!!!
Sunday, October 5, 2008
My wish
A day passed and my wish of seeing a person without any expectations slowly faded.
I began to gel with the reality.
Not to take anything by heart is better,
rather than to sit and think why people
hurt us.
A busy day spent with valuable people
made me forget all the worries I had!!!
Still, I would be lucky or rather the WORLD
will be lucky to have people I wish to see!!!
I began to gel with the reality.
Not to take anything by heart is better,
rather than to sit and think why people
hurt us.
A busy day spent with valuable people
made me forget all the worries I had!!!
Still, I would be lucky or rather the WORLD
will be lucky to have people I wish to see!!!
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